An in-depth guide on Fibromyalgia, covering its symptoms, causes, treatments, and tips for managing this chronic condition effectively.
How Fatphobia Threatened My Life With Fibromyalgia Fibromyalgia is hard enough. It brings daily pain, fatigue, and a fog that clouds both thoughts and emotions. But living with fibromyalgia while also being fat adds a whole new layer of struggle — not from the condition itself, but from how the world, and especially the medical system, sees me. Fatphobia didn’t just make life harder. It made me sicker. It delayed my diagnosis, dismissed my symptoms,…
Why I’m Retiring From Advocacy as a Queer, Disabled Survivor of Abuse There comes a time in every journey when continuing forward no longer feels brave — it feels like survival without self. For years, I poured my energy, heart, and lived experience into advocacy. I fought to be seen, to make space for others, to speak truths that were too often buried under the weight of silence. I showed up in rooms that weren’t…
Fibromyalgia does not follow a script. Every day is different, shaped by the level of pain, energy, and mental clarity I wake up with — or don’t. From the outside, it may seem like I live a quiet life, one that moves at a slower pace. But what people don’t see is the strength it takes to get through each part of the day. This is a look into a typical day in my life…
The 2021 Sundance Film Festival offered a refreshing and long-overdue spotlight on stories that reflect the real world — including authentic disability representation. In a media landscape that often excludes or misrepresents disabled individuals, Sundance provided a platform for filmmakers who brought truth, dignity, and complexity to disability narratives. These films did more than just feature disabled characters — they told their stories with nuance, respect, and realism. From bold documentaries to groundbreaking dramas, these…
21 Things You’ve Thought While Dating With a Fibromyalgia Warrior Dating someone with fibromyalgia is a unique journey filled with tenderness, confusion, admiration, and moments of deep introspection. You find yourself navigating a relationship where love and pain co-exist daily. You become both a partner and a witness to the invisible battles they face. And through it all, there are thoughts you’ve had — some loving, some conflicted, some you might never say aloud —…
Pain is personal. It’s intimate. It’s rooted in the unique wiring of a body and the lived experience of the person inside it. So when I’m in pain and someone says, “That didn’t hurt,” the words don’t just miss the mark—they sting in a way that’s deeper than the initial physical pain itself. They erase my experience, question my reality, and shrink my voice into silence. For anyone living with an invisible illness like fibromyalgia,…
Fibromyalgia arrived in my life like an uninvited storm. It didn’t ask permission. It didn’t come with a warning, It just showed up and turned my world upside down. The constant pain, bone-deep fatigue, and relentless brain fog made even the simplest tasks feel like impossible battles. For a long time, I felt powerless. I let fibromyalgia dictate my days, define my limits, and chip away at my confidence. But something changed. I decided I…
Living with fibromyalgia means waking up each day not knowing how your body will behave. Some mornings are manageable. Others feel like climbing a mountain with no end in sight. Before I started working from home, this unpredictability made maintaining a career feel impossible. I constantly feared burnout, sick days, and the shame of not keeping up. But everything changed the day I transitioned to remote work. Working from home made all the difference in…
When someone opens up about their pain—whether physical, emotional, or invisible—they’re not just stating a fact. They’re taking a vulnerable step. They’re trusting you with something raw and real. But what happens next—the way you respond—can either build a bridge of support or deepen the hurt. Words carry power, and the wrong ones can wound deeper than silence ever could. What you should never say when someone tells you they’re in pain isn’t always obvious.…
Dear person with fibromyalgia, I see you. I hear you. And above all, I believe you. You’ve likely spent years trying to explain your pain, your fatigue, your brain fog. You’ve visited doctors who offered nothing but blank stares, loved ones who shrugged off your suffering, and days where even standing felt like a mountain too steep to climb, You’ve been dismissed, doubted, and disbelieved. But not here. Not now. This is a space of…