Denied and Dismissed: When a Doctor Turned Down My Fibromyalgia Referral and Said I’m ‘Not Sick Enough’
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Denied and Dismissed: When a Doctor Turned Down My Fibromyalgia Referral and Said I’m ‘Not Sick Enough’

I walked into that appointment with hope. It had taken weeks to build up the courage to ask for a referral to a specialist, and even longer to convince myself that my symptoms were valid. The fatigue, the pain, the brain fog—they were interfering with every part of my life. I knew something was wrong. I needed help. But when the doctor looked at me and said I wasn’t “sick enough” for a referral, the…

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Beyond the Pain: I Have Fibromyalgia and Yes, I’m Disabled—Here’s What That Really Means
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Beyond the Pain: I Have Fibromyalgia and Yes, I’m Disabled—Here’s What That Really Means

I have fibromyalgia, and yes, I’m disabled. That sentence often surprises people. There’s an uncomfortable pause, a moment of disbelief, and then the all-too-common response: But you don’t look disabled. This reaction cuts deeper than most realize. It invalidates an experience rooted in chronic pain, fatigue, cognitive dysfunction, and emotional struggle. It minimizes the very real limitations that define my daily life. Fibromyalgia is invisible, but its impact is not. It changes how I move,…

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To the Boyfriend Who Jumped Into My New Fibromyalgia Reality: A Letter of Love and Gratitude
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To the Boyfriend Who Jumped Into My New Fibromyalgia Reality: A Letter of Love and Gratitude

When fibromyalgia entered my life, everything changed. The rhythms of my body, the way I moved through the world, the plans I had for the future—all of it shifted under the weight of unpredictable pain and fatigue. But amid the uncertainty, one constant remained: you. This is for the boyfriend who jumped into my new fibromyalgia reality without hesitation, fear, or judgment. You didn’t just stay. You adapted, you learned, and you loved me differently…

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14 Things I Learned Choosing an Accessible Wedding Venue as a Fibromyalgia Bride
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14 Things I Learned Choosing an Accessible Wedding Venue as a Fibromyalgia Bride

Choosing an Accessible Wedding Venue as a Fibromyalgia Bride Planning a wedding is a mix of joy, dreams, and countless decisions. For most brides, it’s about finding the venue that captures their vision. But for someone living with fibromyalgia, the dream has to meet reality in deeply personal ways. When I began the journey of choosing an accessible wedding venue as a fibromyalgia bride, I quickly learned that beauty, romance, and style were only part…

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13 Ways Fatphobia Nearly Cost Me My Life With Fibromyalgia That No One Talks About
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13 Ways Fatphobia Nearly Cost Me My Life With Fibromyalgia That No One Talks About

How Fatphobia Threatened My Life With Fibromyalgia Fibromyalgia is hard enough. It brings daily pain, fatigue, and a fog that clouds both thoughts and emotions. But living with fibromyalgia while also being fat adds a whole new layer of struggle — not from the condition itself, but from how the world, and especially the medical system, sees me. Fatphobia didn’t just make life harder. It made me sicker. It delayed my diagnosis, dismissed my symptoms,…

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24 Quiet Battles: A Day in My Life With Fibromyalgia That You Never See
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24 Quiet Battles: A Day in My Life With Fibromyalgia That You Never See

Fibromyalgia does not follow a script. Every day is different, shaped by the level of pain, energy, and mental clarity I wake up with — or don’t. From the outside, it may seem like I live a quiet life, one that moves at a slower pace. But what people don’t see is the strength it takes to get through each part of the day. This is a look into a typical day in my life…

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21 Honest Thoughts You’ve Had While Dating a Fibromyalgia Warrior That No One Talks About
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21 Honest Thoughts You’ve Had While Dating a Fibromyalgia Warrior That No One Talks About

21 Things You’ve Thought While Dating With a Fibromyalgia Warrior Dating someone with fibromyalgia is a unique journey filled with tenderness, confusion, admiration, and moments of deep introspection. You find yourself navigating a relationship where love and pain co-exist daily. You become both a partner and a witness to the invisible battles they face. And through it all, there are thoughts you’ve had — some loving, some conflicted, some you might never say aloud —…

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Rising from the Ache: How I Took Back My Power From Fibromyalgia and Reclaimed My Life
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Rising from the Ache: How I Took Back My Power From Fibromyalgia and Reclaimed My Life

Fibromyalgia arrived in my life like an uninvited storm. It didn’t ask permission. It didn’t come with a warning, It just showed up and turned my world upside down. The constant pain, bone-deep fatigue, and relentless brain fog made even the simplest tasks feel like impossible battles. For a long time, I felt powerless. I let fibromyalgia dictate my days, define my limits, and chip away at my confidence. But something changed. I decided I…

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To the One Who Hurts Silently: Dear Person With Fibromyalgia, I Believe You
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To the One Who Hurts Silently: Dear Person With Fibromyalgia, I Believe You

Dear person with fibromyalgia, I see you. I hear you. And above all, I believe you. You’ve likely spent years trying to explain your pain, your fatigue, your brain fog. You’ve visited doctors who offered nothing but blank stares, loved ones who shrugged off your suffering, and days where even standing felt like a mountain too steep to climb, You’ve been dismissed, doubted, and disbelieved. But not here. Not now. This is a space of…

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Misunderstood and Misrepresented: Fibromyalgia Isn’t What Most People Think It Is
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Misunderstood and Misrepresented: Fibromyalgia Isn’t What Most People Think It Is

Fibromyalgia is one of the most widely misunderstood medical conditions today. Ask the average person what it is, and you’ll likely hear vague responses about muscle pain, stress, or even skepticism about whether it’s a real illness at all. But fibromyalgia isn’t what most people think it is. It’s not simply about being tired. It’s not just occasional aches. And it’s certainly not all in someone’s head. For those who live with fibromyalgia every day,…

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