Beyond What They See: I Used to Wish My Pain Was Visible, but It’s Not That Simple
There was a time when I found myself quietly wishing that my pain had a face the world could see. I wanted a cast, a bandage, a visible marker—anything that…
The Truth Isn’t Negative: Am I Being ‘Negative’ By Admitting My Reality With Chronic Illness?
Living with chronic illness means carrying a truth that is often invisible to the world. It means waking up in pain, navigating unpredictable symptoms, and silently adjusting to limitations that…
How Selma Blair and Her Cool Canes Are Quietly Revolutionizing Disability Acceptance
How Selma Blair and Her Cool Canes Support Disability Acceptance Selma Blair, a celebrated actress known for her roles in film and television, has become a powerful figure in disability…
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Defying the Darkness: Why I Won’t Allow Fibromyalgia Pain to Take Away My Dreams
I Won’t Allow Fibromyalgia Pain to Take Away My Dreams I won’t allow fibromyalgia pain to take away my dreams—not because it’s easy, but because my dreams are part of…
Ending the Doubt: 7 Reasons Fibromyalgia Warriors Must Stop Policing Each Other’s Pain
Fibromyalgia Ill People, Let's Stop Accusing Others of Faking Their Illnesses Fibromyalgia ill people, let's stop accusing others of faking their illnesses. Living with fibromyalgia is already an uphill journey—navigating…
Silent Epidemic: Why It’s Time to Talk About the Scary Misdiagnosis Rate Women Face in Healthcare
For decades, the healthcare system has been failing women in ways that are often invisible until it’s too late. Among the most serious and overlooked issues is the alarming misdiagnosis…
Raw and Real: The Vulnerability of Dating While Living With Fibromyalgia
Dating can be a rollercoaster of emotions for anyone, filled with hope, excitement, uncertainty, and self-reflection. But when you live with fibromyalgia, that rollercoaster becomes more complex, layered with fears…
Bruised But Breathing: Because of Trauma, I Often Hate My Body – And That’s My Truth
Some wounds don’t bleed. They don’t show up on skin or in scans. They live beneath the surface, in silence and shame. For many survivors of trauma, one of the…
The Stillness Between Storms: What Living With Fibromyalgia Taught Me About Waiting
Waiting is something most people dislike. Waiting in traffic, Waiting in line, Waiting for life to pick up speed. But for those living with chronic illness—especially fibromyalgia—waiting becomes a central…
Between Us: A Letter to My Friends and Family Who Don’t Have Fibromyalgia
To my friends and family who don’t have fibromyalgia, I know it’s hard to understand what I go through. I know there are days when I seem distant, fragile, or…