What is Fibromyalgia (and What Is It Not)?
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What is Fibromyalgia (and What Is It Not)?

First, it is important to know that fibromyalgia is characterized by wide-spread muscle pain and specific tender areas of the body. However, it doesn’t stop there, because fibromyalgia affects multiple systems of the body, including the nervous system, endocrine system, and the immune system. The brain and GI tract are often involved as well.  One of the hallmarks of fibromyalgia is a dysfunction in the Central Nervous System. This dysfunction can cause a fibro body…

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It’s not you, It’s me: Fibromyalgia and Relationships
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It’s not you, It’s me: Fibromyalgia and Relationships

Grab a cup of coffee or tea and get ready because it is about to get REAL! I have my favorite coffee in my favorite cup and I’m ready to talk about Fibromyalgia and the effects it has on our relationships. My Story On Relationships: I don’t know how many times I have said to family members, “It’s not you, it’s me and I’m sorry for snapping.” This is especially true of my nine-year-old. I…

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Searching for Dr. Right- Fibromyalgia and Physicians
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Searching for Dr. Right- Fibromyalgia and Physicians

When you have Fibromyalgia it’s almost like the quest for Dr. Right is literally a rite of passage.  So many of us “Spoonies” have been frustrated by the lack of knowledge and often kindness we experience at physician visits.  I am not immune to this scenario; this actually has been a heart-breaking experience.  Don’t worry though; I think it has a happy ending. My Story I was diagnosed in 2014 by a physician whose middle…

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Marriage – 6 Ideas in Sickness & Health
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Marriage – 6 Ideas in Sickness & Health

Grab your cup of coffee or tea and get ready for some “girl talk”! First, let me tell you about me. I have been married for 19 years to my wonderful husband. Anyone married this long knows it isn’t sunshine and rainbows everyday. We have had our share of “rough patches” over the years. He was 19 and I was 21 when we first got together and we both had some growing up to do.…

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Fibromyalgia Causes & 10 Ways to Improve Health
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Fibromyalgia Causes & 10 Ways to Improve Health

Although the exact cause of Fibromyalgia is not known, there are enough people with the condition to have several possible causes with positive correlations. Sadly, correlation does not mean causation! So what caused my Fibromyalgia? Personally, I know exactly why I have the condition. It directly correlates with some of my life choices. That is not to say I would not have developed the condition either way, however if anyone can learn from my mistakes…

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My Love/Hate Relationship With Taking a Shower
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My Love/Hate Relationship With Taking a Shower

I didn’t always hate taking a shower. Before I had Fibromyalgia I probably even loved it. It has always been the thing that wakes me up in the morning and makes me feel good. However, now there is more of a love/hate feeling towards the shower. If you have Fibromyalgia or any other chronic pain condition, you probably already know what I’m going to say.  If you don’t have a chronic condition then you are…

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6 Ways To Be Thankful While Having Chronic Illness
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6 Ways To Be Thankful While Having Chronic Illness

Every year my family goes around the table and says what they are thankful for. Even though this year has been my worst. I am determined to stay positive.  Finding the things I am grateful for (even if it kills me) will happen. I often find myself feeling sorry for myself and wondering why I have a chronic illness that there is no cure for and that the medical community barely understands. Yet, I need…

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Fibromyalgia & Mental Health
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Fibromyalgia & Mental Health

**Subject matter in this article may be a trigger for depression, suicide & self harm.** This is a post I have been thinking about for a while but couldn’t decide if I wanted to actually write it. Writing about my physical illness is hard enough, but my mental status feels even more intimate. Can I make myself even more vulnerable than I already have? Can I say anything that would be helpful to anyone else,…

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5 Ways To Ease Mom Guilt Quickly
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5 Ways To Ease Mom Guilt Quickly

Mom Guilt (Dad Guilt), we all have had it at one time or another. I know this because we can’t all be perfect, so sometimes we are going to mess up or disappoint our kids. Even the healthiest of moms (dads) is going to have some mom (dad) guilt over her (his) inadequacies. However, having a chronic illness like Fibromyalgia and being a mom (dad) comes with its own set of “mom (dad) guilt feelings”.…

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4 Ways To Exercise While Chronically Ill
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4 Ways To Exercise While Chronically Ill

Do you succumb to the thought process of New Year, New You? I do not, and I will tell you why. First of all, having a chronic pain illness often limits my mobility. Really, the term “new you” sounds awesome, but is unrealistic for someone with an incurable condition. Do I really want to set myself up for failure? I don’t think so. However, there are so many ways to get some exercise in your…

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